Friday, April 3, 2009

The second part of Afghanistan's wedding. 阿富汗婚姻介绍(一部分)


… In the “ Sherny Khari” ceremony we can say that boy and girl starts the formal relation ship to gather . After this one they can make appointment and go to see sighting or some other places as friends ( far form any sexual or even kissing one ) . By this meeting all people now accept that they are as friends that want to get marry in sooner time. Period of this one might be as six or lees or more one which mostly deepened on the both family planning for the weeding party.
Some times families celibate formal contraction and taking owe of getting marry in one other party called ” Kheshi Gary “ . In this one some scholar or official people write some document and both of the sign it officially. Now they are in real as couple and no one can ask any thing about their relationship and they can have any sex or every thing.
During this party both family present some gift to groom and bride that it is up to their economical power like “golden bracelet or ring…. Btu normally now this one do not want to have this one thanks to heavy economical due and waste of money.
The weeding party also up to the bride . groom and both families desire that normally takes place in the one year or more in advance . in this one normally families , bride , groom invite their friends in groom ‘s home for dinner and dancing . But in cities normally families prefer getting this one in the hotel but if they have not less money the ceremony will be again home. in the wedding they cook Palow , Qormah , mess or some other with expensiv details . After this one both bride and groom go to their home with all guest or if they have not any home they return to family home to start normal life.
Guest number is up to the number of friend and relative and economical situation but mostly in, middle family it 100-500.
The weeding suite is normally white or black and groom takes on always white. ( No time the rest will be sent by emails . So please ask me the rest . I have written in my friend dorm and my son is calling for taking supper .

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